Thursday, July 29, 2010

summer time

i have never loved the summer.  i can't stand bugs.  mosquitos especially seem to love me and find me anywhere.  the heat exhausts me in no time flat.  but this summer, i have to say, we have had so much fun between pool days, play dates, play group, and beach days.  so here are some pics of our summer time fun...and yes, even i've been enjoying myself...pregnant belly and all :)

getting isaac used to the ocean...he's getting there :)

coming home from the shore


playing on the slide at play group


sleepover at oma and papa's with the girl cousins


cousins pic


oma braving the pool with isaac, elise, and jonas and their three float caravan

swimming with oma and papa


learning how to jump rope


loving her time with the girls


cousins...silly face picture (i just love elise's face in this one!)

Sunday, July 18, 2010

lunchtime cuties

someday my kids will look back and ask why i took pictures at such random times...i will have no answer except that i'm random like that...and that they're so darn cute!  
here's lunchtime from the other day...





Thursday, July 15, 2010

detox the house

so we were recently introduced to a company called Melaleuca.  they claim to sell products free of chemicals, cheaper than the grocery store, and more green for the environment.  sounded too good to be true.  but we're trying it out.  they especially got me hooked with a lotion they sell that has been proven to be seven times more effective than eucerin for eczema...and we're in desperate need of something that will clear up isaac's skin.  so...

we signed up and ordered one of the starter kits, which came with not only cleaning and laundry products,  but health and beauty care products, as well as a few food/nutrition items.  our first step...clear out all the chemical laden stuff and replace.  so here we go...here's what we got rid of.  i have to admit, it felt good.  i'm excited at the prospect of using natural products in all areas of the house and seeing how it will affect us.  with elise's rough winter, my interest was also peaked when they talked about the three main weakening agents of the immune system being sugar, environmental toxins, and nutritional deficiency...how's that for making you feel overwhelmed...anyway, i'll keep you posted on the journey.

Friday, July 9, 2010

Coxsackie and me

sounds like a movie just waiting to be made, huh?  well, ever since our fam got hit with Coxsackievirus (aka: hand, foot, and mouth disease), i have been on the hunt for answers to my ever growing list of questions about contagiousness, reinfection, and what in the world, if anything, it could do to the little one growing in my womb.  after my recent visit with the high risk doctor, many if not most of my questions have been answered (though of course, i now have more!)  but for those of you in our family or circle of friends who have children who have gotten this, you have gotten this, or you're dreading every play date for the summer because you're afraid of getting it...i thought it may be helpful to share what i've learned on this not-so-well-known-but-oh-so-common virus.

for basic info on the virus itself, what it can do, general duration, etc., check out the Center for Disease Control's web site.  their general info page is very informative and thorough.  that's your best starting point.  from there, here's what else i've learned:

How long am I really contagious?  Really?  
until the blisters/sores/pimples/spots/rash goes away.  it's not just when the fever is gone. (bummer!)

Can I get it again?
yes.  sorry but it's true.  there is Coxsackie A and Coxsackie B...and there are multiple strains within each.  so will you may have been exposed/infected by one strain, you can be infected by another at another time.

Random fun facts:
*first known case was in Coxsackie, NY...hence the name (that poor town)
*it can be spread through water...hence the breakouts that can occur in beach towns, lakes, etc. and why it's so common in the summer months

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PREGNANCY AND COXSACKIE


How cautious do I have to be to not get it again?
more than likely the strain that went around our circle of friends, was probably the same strain.  so all of us (aka: the gazillion kids and three adults that i know of) who have gotten it have our immunities and won't get that strain again.  just keep praying no other strains come our way :)

What risk does this virus pose to my baby?
most doctors and web sites say no risk at all.  HOWEVER, there are known cases (incredibly few though) where the baby was infected.  it poses no risk of congenital defects (birth defects like cleft pallette, paralysis, etc.) but it can cause an infection around the baby's heart, which would then lead to hydrops (which is when fluid builds up around the heart, lungs, and stomach...the skin thickens) and the baby would likely die.  however, with coxsackie, the chances of this happening are SO slim...the doctors i've talked to have said without wavering, "we don't expect any problems with your baby."  the doc i talked with yesterday added that she's never seen a case of it and doubts anyone in her office has either.  she added that in all her medical books and physicians' web sites...there are three sentences if that on this topic.  information is very limited.

however, they are quick to say that the most risk is posed to the baby when you are late in your pregnancy and get the virus.  they are concerned that you will have the virus when you deliver and then pass it on to your newborn baby, which can be dangerous for the baby.

What can be done?
if you have coxsackie while pregnant (not just if you were exposed to it...they are very different) they will have you go in for an ultrasound where they will check to see if there is fluid build up anywhere.  in addition, they will probably do an Echo cardiogram to check the baby's heart function.  while it is most likely that the baby would get this virus sooner than later, there is no conclusive evidence to prove how long exactly the baby is at risk.  so to cover all grounds, they will monitor every 2 weeks or so through the rest of the pregnancy.

if they find fluid or an indication of infection...there is nothing they can do.  it's a virus.  if they found it after 24 weeks, they could deliver the baby prematurely, try their best to stabalize him, and hope for the best...and if it happens before 24 weeks, the ultimate outcome is no different.  you just have the benefit of tracking it via ultrasound.  (not sure if that's a blessing or a curse, honestly)

My remaining questions:
*Can all these ultrasounds be harmful to the baby?  I've been told no, but something inside me is not content with that answer...
*If nothing can be done to help the baby, why is so much surveillance necessary?  (data collection, possibly?  for liability purposes?)  Should we even do all this????

Our current status:
my blood work in June showed that i had antibodies for three of the six coxsackie B strains, meaning i have been exposed to/infected by them at some point.  however, there's no way to gauge the time frame. so i will have blood drawn in a few weeks.  by comparing levels of antibodies they can tell if it was recent or not.  i have another ultrasound and an echo of the baby's heart scheduled for next week.  two weeks later, another ultrasound and blood work.  assuming the blood work indicates a recent infection, they want to monitor me every two weeks for the rest of the pregnancy.

more importantly, our heart status:

we are trusting the Lord.  what other option is there?  He has been kind in not allowing it to be a struggle to trust Him thus far though.  i was standing in front of the elevator waiting for it to come whisk me away from the hospital yesterday, and all that kept running through my mind was, "this baby is in Your hands, Lord.  he's in Your hands.  he has been all along and he will be all of his days."  praise God for not allowing fear and anxiety to consume my heart and mind.  thank you to all who have prayed to that end!  our only prayer requests at this time are these: that we would have wisdom as to whether to proceed with all this surveillance or not...and that God would protect our little one, to the glory of His Name.

i hope this is helpful...even to just one person.

Saturday, July 3, 2010

IT'S A BOY!!

we've had a bit of drama with everyone's health the past few weeks.  after hand, foot, and mouth disease making its way through isaac, elise and me...we are all feeling much better.  however, because of getting the virus, i am currently under "high risk" status (aka: extra attention and more appointments).  because of that, we got to find out the baby's gender a month early!  so here he is...our second little man!  please be praying that God would continue to grow him healthy and strong.  thus far, all is well, and the doctor told me he doesn't anticipate any problems.  but they would rather be safe than sorry.  the chances of the virus passing from me to the baby are incredibly slim.  however, the biweekly tests that i will be doing are to check to make sure there is no fluid around his heart, which could result in heart failure.  like i said, thus far, all is well.  but we would love your prayers that he would stay that way.  we are thanking God for bringing our family back to health and for this little one.  as justin reminded me in prayer the other night, God already knows his name and his days are already numbered (psalm 139).  he is in His hands.





day at the shore



justin had off work yesterday and though he doesn't like the shore, said we could take the kids for the day.  (thanks babe!)  neither of our children proved to be all that enthralled with the ocean.  instead, they sat and played in the sand for the ENTIRE time we were at the beach.  it was great!  isaac occasionally tried to eat a shell or two, but for the most part, he was just amazed by this giant sandbox.  elise and i made one drippy castle with wet sand down by the water, but she insisted i had to fill the buckets up each time we needed more.  i got them both wet at one point...but neither would go back.  oh well...here's to sandy bottoms, gritty hair, and happy kids sleeping the whole way home :)





he LOVED the seagulls!


our little girl

she's just growing up so quickly!!  she is still such an observer, but lately i've seen her coming out of her shell more quickly in group settings.  she's getting crazy with her cousins and even presents a challenge to jonas these days!  she loves her brother, though we're working quite regularly on "being gentle" with him (though i keep having this pressing thought in the back of my mind, that not very long from now...i may have to be reminding him to do the same with her...)  she's very artistic and now loves to just sit and color with crayons, pencils, pens, markers...and of course, paint!  here she is making one of her masterpieces.  this one's for daddy.  most of them are either for daddy or uncle paul :)


and she's also developing that girl's sense of wanting to dress herself.  here is the pajama ensemble she insisted on wearing the other night...and to top it off, she wore this get up with a pair of grey and pink striped socks all the next day too.  i smile seeing her personality come through and watching her blossom into this sweet, spunky, loving, thoughtful, intelligent little girl.  if it weren't for her, i would have forgotten to get juice at the store today.  if it weren't for her, cake making wouldn't be nearly as much fun.  and if it weren't for her, i wouldn't have laughed out loud at dinner tonight as she told me that she was the adult, i was the girl, and she was going to help make daddy's birthday cake (even if she didn't finish her dinner...)